Memories
of Boulder
Written by Bryl Kautzman
Bryl Kautzman
was the third child in the Joseph Frank Kautzman Family, which moved to
Boulder, Colorado about 1914. My father, Alton Lyle Kautzman, was
the last child in that family, being born in October of 1920. Bryl's
story describes the life of the family from 1911 to 1930, when her Mother
died. I have continued the story including the life of my Father
until he and my Mother, Gwendolyn Walton, married in Boulder.
Joseph Kautzman married Nellie Mae Ferrill
in Endicott, Nebraska, in 1910. When a son, Richard, was born to
the couple in 1911, her mother, Carrie Ferrill, moved in with them and
never left. Grandma Ferrill had raised Nellie and her older brother,
Clyde, alone by being a washerwoman, and had a strong grip on her children.
When Clyde moved to Sterling, Colorado and then to Boulder, with his job,
Carrie insisted that Nellie and her family follow him.
Joseph Kautzman was, like the rest of his
family, a painter and paperhanger. When they first moved to Boulder,
there was not much work for Joe and the family took a small house in the
Colored section of town. A fourth child in the family had just died
and that is where Bryl's story picks up.
We lived in a small house in the colored part
of town where rent was very cheap. In 1915 Mother had another baby.
She only lived a year but Mama finally got to name it Belva Ruth, the name
she had wanted to give me. The year Belva died, I got polio, and
Mother and Grandma and those wonderful colored ladies saved my life.
They wrapped me in hot and cold wet sheets. I didn’t walk for two
years.
Daddy only worked occasionally, Mother and
Grandma did laundry. At Christmas time there was no money for a tree
or presents. Mother said all I wanted was a big bear and a banana.
On Christmas Eve we all went to the Salvation Army Church. When we
got home, the front porch was piled high with a Christmas tree, presents,
and food. They had to go the back door to get in and there on the
back porch were more boxes. It was a very happy, wonderful Christmas
for everyone.
Things were looking up for us. Daddy
had a steady job working for Mr. Tinsley( Linsley) and he worked for him
for the rest of his life. We moved into a nice house and Mom didn’t
have to work anymore. In 1918, Randall was born. He was such
a beautiful baby. When we got sick Mother made such a fuss over us.
When we had smallpox Daddy put up a swing for us in the apple tree.
Grandma nagged at him and picked on
him so much he didn’t spend much time at home. He would go to work
early and not come home until everyone was asleep. Merle and Richard
were afraid of him but I never was. That was a happy period in our
lives.
Merle and I had long hair and Mother put it
up on rags to make us beautiful curls. She loved to do all the things
Grandma never did for her, fuss over us. She told us about how Grandma
always kept her hair in braids and that she would braid it so tight that
Mother couldn’t even shut her eyes and if she made a sound she would get
cracked with the comb.
Daddy found a house to buy so we moved into
the house where Alton was born. It was the first house we ever lived
in that had two floors. I didn’t like the new school so I played
hooky. When I finally got caught, I received a good hard whipping
and had to go to bed upstairs all by myself. I was more frightened
than hurt and kept thinking something was going to come out of the closet
and grab me.
Grandma had the downstairs bedroom and shared
it with Richard and Randall. Mother, Merle, Alton, and I had the
big bedroom upstairs. Daddy had the small back bedroom upstairs by
himself because he always talked in his sleep.
The day Alton was born, Grandma fixed our
breakfast and told us to hurry off to school. The big bed had been
moved down into the living room and Mama was in it. We kissed her
good-by and she smiled and said we’d have a little brother or sister when
we got home. Richard was 11, Merle was 9, I was 7, and Randall was
2. I ran all the way home from school and found Mama sitting up in
bed holding a big fat baby boy.
He was so cute but he cried all the time.
The only time he wasn’t crying was when someone was walking the floor with
him or he was asleep. The neighbors called the police to investigate
his crying. Mother was so angry but she took the police into the
bedroom to see him. He was so clean and healthy they could see he
was alright–the policeman picked him up and as soon as he started walking
with Alton, Alton smiled and cooed at him. The police just laughed
and went out.
One day when Alton was about 3 months old,
Daddy came home with a walker in his pickup. First one we’d ever
seen and from the minute they put Alton in it and he found out he could
move it, he never cried again.
Once in a while Daddy would take us for a
ride in his pick-up. One time Mama was getting ready and I was sitting
in Daddy’s lap when Richard and Merle called me into the dining room and
whispered in my ear. I went back to Daddy and whispered that we wanted
a gyroscope. They were very popular in school and Richard wanted
one really bad. Daddy said, "Is that what you were whispering about?"
I said yes then he called Merle and Richard in and told them "From now
on when you want something from me you come and ask for it yourself."
Before we left town he stopped at a store and bought us each a gyroscope.
We sat in the back of the pick-up and Mother,
Daddy, and the two babies sat in from. We went far up in the mountains
and had a lovely picnic lunch.
On the way home something happened to
the pickup. Daddy stopped in a resort to get help. Evening
was coming on and they couldn’t get it fixed. The man that owned
the garage had a empty cabin so he gave it to us to use until the truck
was ready.
We went to the little grocery store
to get some food and went back to the cabin. Daddy built a fire in
the fireplace-the first one we’d ever seen–and we roasted wienies and marshmallows
and it was such a wonderful time. For once we were away from Grandma.
It was the happiest time of my life.
Grandma got a summer job. She did the
washing and ironing for a big resort up above Estes Park (the one in Shinning).
What a treat the summers were with her gone. Mother could use her
kitchen and she liked to try new things. We could really be a family
for a little while. Then fall would come and Grandma would come home
and it would all end.
One summer Daddy took us to visit where Grandma
worked. Where the road ended there were picnic tables _ so we sat
out lunch while we waited. All was ready but no Grandma so Mama,
Merle, Richard, and I started up the trail to meet her. Daddy watched
the little boys and kept the Blue jays from stealing out food.
When Grandma got there we ate and she took
up back to see where she worked at the lodge. We saw where she lived
and worked and we had dinner in the big dinning room. It was the
first time we had all eaten out and we were nervous. Grandma’s good
friend who worked in the kitchen had baked us a special lemon meringue
pie. In the fall when Grandma came home she used her money to buy
our winter clothes.
The only time I ever remember Daddy telling
us we couldn’t do something was one evening when he came home from work
and found us and the neighbor kids playing statue. He watched a few
minutes and then called us into the house. He explained that it was
dangerous and never wanted us to play it again
.
Here is another story I forgot so it won’t
be in the right sequence. It happened the summer after the Christmas
story I told. We were living in a house by the railroad tracks.
Mother and Grandma, Richard and Merle had gone somewhere. Daddy,
who had broken his leg, was baby sitting me. We had moved here after
my baby sister Belva died. I was 3 years old. Somehow I got
away from Daddy and was walking down the railroad track. He was following
me on his crutches. I would stay just ahead of him when here came
the train. The engineer and the fireman knew Daddy so they blasted
the whistle and stopped the train as close to Daddy as they could then
the fireman jumped off the train and caught me. After Daddy got off
the track they put me in the cab and I sat on the engineer's lap and went
on into the station on the train. I don’t know if I got a spanking
or not when I got home.
Two more adventures happened to me while we
lived in that house. I was helping Richard fix the fence and stuck
my head through a hole at the wrong time and he hit it with the hammer.
In the back yard of that house was a bottomless
well. They would and next thing you know it would all be gone.
They thought there must be a river underneath it. It was covered
with planks. One day I fell down the hole. Somehow I caught
on a ledge and they were able to get me out. Just wasn’t my time
I guess.
Another close call I had was when we were
visiting at the home of Daddy’s Partner at work, Mr. Perry. They
had 2 daughters and we were outside playing. Their house was built
on a hillside with stairs going down to the road. Daddy and Mr. Perry
were down in the road fixing a flat tire. It was dark and Richard
came around the corner of the house with a sheet over his head and scared
us girls. I was near the stairs and ran down them. I fell down
the stairs and my head struck the iron rim. I was unconscious for
days.
Richard had a bad accident too,
before Daddy died. Near our house were some grain elevators.
The trains ran into the lot to load and unload grain. One night or
late afternoon when no one was working, Richard and several other neighborhood
boys climbed up a freight train and jumped to the roof of the building.
They were playing when Richard grabbed a live wire where the insulation
had worn off. The current threw him away from the wire. He
was knocked out and burned the four fingers off to the first joint and
burned the bottoms of his feet. While some of the boys were getting
him down off the shed some others ran to tell Mama.
I was looking for him to call him to supper
and the boys told me to go tell Mama that Richard had been electrocuted.
I didn’t know what that meant so that’s just what I told Mama. Her
face went white as a sheet and Grandma screamed. They both were running
to Richard. A doctor lived near us so we took Richard
there. He bandaged Richard’s feet and hand and said it was a miracle
he wasn’t killed.
We were doing fine and then tragedy struck.
Daddy had been sick for several days; he had a bad cough and was in bed.
Grandma noticed when you touched his skin it looked like fluid under the
skin. The Doctor said it was nothing but Grandma was worried and
so was Mama.
Every morning she made us kiss Daddy goodbye
before we went to school. On the evening of October 5 we ate supper
and went to bed as usual. Richard, Randall and Alton were downstairs,
and Merle and I upstairs. Mama and Grandma were still up when Daddy
got sick to his stomach. He started down the stairs to the bathroom
but never made it. What had been seeping through his body was blood
from a small rupture in his jugular vein. When the blood hit his
stomach it made him vomit. The strain enlarged the opening and he
hemorrhage. There was never a chance. The blood spattered all
over the wall and stairway. Mother and Grandmother heard him and
came running to help him to the bottom of the stairs.
He had a stool there where he loved to sit
with his back on the water heater and talk to Mama and Grandma while they
were working in the kitchen. On that stool he bled to death.
His blood went all over the floor and on Mama and Grandma and they held
him. Richard came to the dining room door and looked in and ran outside
and hid. Randall and Alton would come until their little feet would
touch the blood and track blood into the living room until there was a
solid path of blood.
Merle and I were at the top of the stairs
and once Daddy was on the stool she fled down the stairs and out doors
where Richard caught her and they stood trembling out in the cold.
I couldn’t walk through the blood so I just knelt and screamed at the top
of the stairs until I lost consciousness.
I never knew when he died or they took his
body away. The neighbors came in to help clean up the blood.
I only remember how scared everyone was. How no one would go from
one room to another without everyone going. I hardly remember Daddy’s
Mother and Father and brothers coming for the funeral. The funeral–
I never saw so many people–how everyone must have loved him. There
were so many flowers and he looked like he was just asleep with a smile
on his face.
One evening a knock came on the door and when
Mother answered it she jumped back with a scream. On the porch stood
a group of KKK’s men in their robes and hoods. The leader told her
he was sorry they frightened her and handed her a sack of money.
They said how sorry they were for our loss and left
After Father died we moved into a little 4-room
house that Mother bought with the money from the KKK men.. In the
bedroom there were two double beds and a single bed. Mother, Meryl,
and I slept in one bed. Richard, Randall, and Alton in the other
and Grandma, of course, had a bed alone. If one of us got hurt or
sick we got to sleep with her. The only time I got to sleep with
her was when I broke my arm. That was something special.
After the lights were out we each said our
prayer starting with Randall and Alton saying "now I lay me down to sleep..."
Then the rest of us would say the Lord’s prayer. Grandmother always
ended with her long prayer and if her day had been good it was a nice prayer
but if anything bad had happened, it could be terrible and frightening.
Sometimes I’d hide my head under the covers and pillow so I couldn’t hear
her. She would ask GOD to do the most terrible things to anyone who
wronged her.
We couldn’t stay in the house so Mother
sold her equity in it and bought a 4 room house in another part of town.
There wasn’t much money left after the funeral expenses were paid.
Grandma still worked summers at Estes Park and Mother got a job doing housework
and taking care of children and doing laundry. She would come home
on the streetcar so tired by every evening after supper until bedtime she
would read to us. Stories like Ben Hur, Quo Vadis, Little Women,
Treasure Island, and Les Miserables were some of them. Once in a
while on Saturday we would go out to a movie and she would buy us all a
sucker.
Sunday was always a quiet day spent at Sunday
School Church and Evening services. We were still going to the Salvation
Army.
Grandma made most of our clothes. Merle
and I cleaned house and ironed and mended the clothes she washed for others.
We had a wagon that we delivered the laundries in; that we hated the worst.
Our life was filled with work and school. Merle was poor in school
and didn’t like it. Richard and I were doing alright. Mother
said she would see we all graduated from Jr. High but if we wanted more
education we would have to get it on our own.
She had a wonderful way with children.
She loved them and they loved her very much. She worked for the professors
and their wives at the University of Colorado at Boulder. She was
small and plain with brown hair but she had beautiful, grey, eyes.
So sad and empty.
When Alton was four years old (1924),
Grandma lost her job at the Park. Poor Mama, she could do no more,
she was already using up all her strength. One of the professor’s
wives told her about a boy’s school in Denver called Clayton College.
It wasn’t for orphans, these boys had to have one parent. She hated
the thought of giving up her children but she thought at least they would
get an education, plenty of food and clothes. That was more than
she could provide now. Alton was just right age for Clayton College
but Randall was too old. Randall was sent to a Catholic School.
The small boys were devastated at being separated and did not understand
why they had to leave.
Randall had a photographic memory and was
a good student and loved school, but at the Catholic school, he only had
overalls to wear and the taunting of the other kids made life miserable
for him.
After the babies were sent away, Mother just
seemed to get smaller and sadder and more tired. She started suffering
with bad headaches.
Later, when Grandma’s Father was dying, Uncle
Clyde took us all back to Nebraska. Randall got sick so Mother stayed
with him. The doctor thought it was Rheumatic fever so she stayed
to take care of him.
After Alton was in Clayton College,
the school in Denver, we enjoyed his visits so much. He would always
bring some other little boy who wouldn’t have anywhere to go. Alton
always looked so nice–he was always dressed so nice. Clayton College gave
each child five new sets of clothes each year and an allowance.
Mother was so proud that one of her children had all the things he needed
and extras.
For my Dad, little Alton, the experience was
traumatic. He and two other boys were beaten with a rubber hose.
The attendant who did that was fired. Daddy also wet the bed sometimes
and was forced to sit on the stairs under the wet sheet for the whole day.
He would beg to stay with Randall, every Sunday when we put him on the
bus to go back to Denver.
Merle was determined to find a husband.
She had three serious boyfriends. One was studying to be a teacher
and had a car. He taught me how to drive so they could sit in the
back seat and smooch while I drove around. Another friend would take
up on camping trips. The one she married worked for the railroad.
She was 16 and very happy. She had been married for a little over
a year then one Saturday morning, she called Mother. We had no phone,
Mrs. King next door let us use hers. She asked if Mama could come
and stay with her for the afternoon. Howard and his family had to
go to Denver to a funeral and she wasn’t feeling well. Late in the
afternoon Merle was lying on the couch and Mama was sitting beside her
on a chair. All of a sudden Merle had a convulsion and fell on the
floor unconscious. Mother ran to the phone and called an ambulance.
In the Hospital they put them both in isolation because it was Spinal meningitis.
Merle died before noon the next day. Mother was with her all the
time watching her suffering until the end. Merle was Mama’s favorite
child.
A few months after Merle died Mother noticed
the limp under her arm. When the doctor examined it he found lumps
all over her body. He diagnosed Hodgkin Disease. Doctor’s didn’t
know much about it in those days. They sent her to the Mayo clinic
then back to Denver. How she must have suffered not only form the
disease, but having all those people looking at her and poking and prodding
all the time. They operated on the one under her arm. It was
awful. Finally they brought her back to Boulder and put her in the
county hospital. Since she had no money the only way she could be
treated was to be an experimental patient.
At least we could visit her in Boulder.
In the wards at the hospital she still read to the people, especially the
Bible.
By this time I had a job at the Community
Hospital which was about a mile from her. The first time I visited
her she called me her pretty little nurse. They were giving her so
much morphine that she was delirious. The nurse told me she was in
so much pain that they had given her enough to kill any other person.
(A tribute to the strong IRISH blood running through her veins.)
On Thanksgiving morning (1930) we were busy
in the kitchen at the Hospital, because it was a special day. The
lady from the office came downstairs to tell me Mama was dying and I was
the one they sent for so I could go. I sat by her all day.
The door and the window was open because the smell was so bad. I
could count to twenty between her breaths. Finally at 10 o'clock
that night they told me to go home and come back next morning. Next
morning I rushed to the neighbors to call the hospital and they said she
had died at 4:00 A. M. Poor darling, she died so hard and all
alone.
It was a lovely funeral. Kitty, who
became a doctor at John Hopkins, played the piano and her sister played
the violin. Another lady sang. These were friends of Mother.
Wives and children of professors she had worked for.
When Daddy died, Mother had bought 3 lots.
Belva was buried next to Daddy and Merle was next to Belva. Mother
asked for a lot as close to them as possible for her. Mother would
have been glad to know that she was buried next to Mother Madison, and
old Salvation Army friend and her son, Tom.
I’m sure there are more memories that are
lost and forgotten. Like how many years she worked for a doctor to
pay for taking out Richard and mine and Merle’s tonsils. Also, her
love for Bill Boltz. He was an oil driller that Clyde introduced
her to. He brought her beautiful clothes took her out to restaurants
and the movies. He had 2 cars and took us all places. He taught
Richard to drive his little Pontiac. Grandma was very jealous of
that affair and did everything she could to spoil it.
He took us way up to Montana and Wyoming on
one trip. Bill taught us to play cards. He bought us our first
radio, so we could listen to the Dempsy/Tunney fight.
(End of Bryl's story)
When his Mother died, Alton, my Dad, did not
get to come home anymore. He was ten years old and he became very
mean tempered after that. He fought, was a bad student and ran away
several times and the authorities kept bringing him back to Clayton College.
When he turned sixteen, they did not follow him and he caught a freight
train to California to find Randall.
They bummed around the country until early
in 1941 when they went came back to Boulder . Bryl was married and had four kids,
so Randall and Daddy stayed with them and paid room and board to help with
expenses. Daddy met Gwendolyn Walton during that stay
and soon they married. Randall married Mother's best friend, Ruby
that same summer of 1941. In the Fall of 1941, Randall was drafted
and sent to the Pacific. He was killed on one of the pacific island
skirmishes. Daddy and Mother moved to Idaho Springs and
I was born in May of 1942. They weren't getting along well, so Daddy
joined the Navy and was sent to a clean-up ship in the Pacific.
He made it through the war and we all relocated to Tabernash, Colorado.
The Walton
Family History in Boulder County
By Kathy Kautzman
Gold Hill was a gold mining town in Boulder
County Colorado. Caribou and Jamestown were small settlements close
to Gold Hill and in Grandma (Barnette) Walton’s obituary, it states that
she was born in Caribou. Among the other towns in that area were
Nederland, know for the quartz mining, Louisville, where the coal miners
lived and Eldora with various metal mines.
The Walton Family had emigrated from
Wales to Pennsylvania and then to Wisconsin. Leonard Walton, his
wife Lizzie, and three of their children had moved to Gold Hill in about
1878 to work the gold mines. The 1880 Census states that Leonard
was 45, Lizzie was 33 and Allie, Bennett, and Oscar were 12, 6 and 2, respectively.
In the Walton Family Bible, 1885 edition,
the inscription reads "Presented to Walter R. Walton by his Mother Ellen
Walton." In the center of the bible there are pages for Marriages,
Births, Deaths and Memoranda.
The first entry on the Marriage page is Leonard
R. Walton and Elizabeth R. Rule, March 8th, 1886. The second entry
is William H. Patton and Allie Walton, Sept. 28th, 1887. Allie was
to die less than a year later.
Births listed are, Leonard R. Walton, Jan.
28th, 1838; Elizabeth Rule, July 31st; 1848; Allie R. Walton, April 28th,
1868; Annie Florence Walton, Oct. 6th, 1870; Bennett Lewis Walton, July
3rd, 1873, Oscar Leonard Walton, Nov. 25th, 1878; and Walter R. Walton,
July 29th 1881. They are not in chronological order.
The names of Oscar Leonard Walton, May 16th,
1939, and Leonard R. Walton, March 17th, 1910 are written in blue ink and
a poor imitation of the previous elegant handwriting. Three other
entries, written in my Mother’s hand, are Bennet Lewis Walton, Walter R.
Walton, and Elizabeth R. Rule Walton. There are no dates for these
deaths.
In 1900, Leonard R. Walton, Elizabeth and their
sons Oscar, 21, and Walter, 18, were living next door to William H. Patton,
his second wife, Hattie, and their four children Oscar was to become the
father of Allie Pearl, Lois and Gwendolyn.
Allie (Walton) Patton was pregnant and went
to the out-house one day. Her Mother, Lizzie, had seen her go since
they lived next door to each other. She meant to check on Allie but
forgot and when William came home and asked for Allie, her Mother screamed
and they ran to the outhouse. They discovered that Allie had miscarried
and bled to death.
Elizabeth Rule Walton, Lizzie, listed
her place of birth as Wisconsin and her parents were from Cornwall, England.
Leonard was born in Pennsylvania; his parents were from Wales.
Bennett Walton lived seven houses away, was
married to Nelly and they had one daughter, Leta.
Near him lived James Barnette, his wife Wilheminna,
and three daughters. The daughters were Minnie P., 12, Dora M., 9,
and Myrtle R. who is 4. Minnie P. was to become the wife of Oscar
Walton and subsequently, my Grandmother.
Dora died at 16, while Grandma was helping
bathe her. They thought she was recovering from something contagious.
Dora was the one who painted the flowers on velvet.
Myrtle R. was to become Aunty Mae.
There was a little brother, named Bennett, who died also. He was
sick with diphtheria and the remedy of the day was to restrict his diet.
Minnie Pearl was baking cookies one day and her little brother begged her
for just one cookie. She didn’t give it to him but Bennett died anyway;
she would never bake cookies again.
George Barnette, his wife, one daughter, and
one son lived ten houses from his brother, James. James and George
both list themselves as born in Michigan and their parents from England.
All the men listed their occupations as ore
miners. Some of the mine names were the Alvin Mine, Wolf Tongue Mine,
and the Slide Mine of Gold Hill. The town names were Nederland, Niwot
Village, Lyons, and Nolan. And Salina. There was the Left Hand
Canyon, Right Hand Canyon, Sunshine Canyon, and Sugarloaf Mountain.
In 1910, Gold Hill had street names and
a Post Office. Oscar and M. Pearl (Barnette) Walton lived on # 7
Main Street with their first daughter, A. Pearl, born June 11, 1910.
Ellen Walton, 62, lived at # 14 Main Street. Walter Walton, Daisy,
his wife and their two daughters, Evelyn and Frances, lived at # 25 Pine
Street.
The Barnetts were scattered. Joseph,
37 and his wife Frances, 34, lived at # 19 High Street, and at # 20 High
street James, 45, Minnie, 41, and Myrtle (Aunty Mae), was 14.
My grandfather, Oscar, owned the Slide
Mine, and did pretty well for some time, but he agreed to do something
which took nearly all his money and lost him the mine and his spirit.
All of the mines in the Gold Hill area ran
into bedrock at about 300 feet. Some geological engineers at the
University of Colorado were convinced that drilling through the bedrock
would uncover another body of valuable ore. He sunk the mine to 1,100
feet and came to the end of his finances but no ore.
The family moved to Boulder in about
1920, and purchased a house with what was left of their money. Oscar
tried to do small jobs but became bedridden with arthritis. Mama
says that the last winter he tried to work, all he could get was shoveling
streets in the winter and all he had to wear was old tennis shoes.
(They used to be the cheapest shoe around).
Pearl was 12 and Lois was 9 when Mama
was born in 1922 in Boulder. Mama never remembers seeing her father
walk. All the girls had to help take care of him. There were
wheels on his bed and they rolled him into the kitchen. Mama remembers
hearing him cry with pain while Grandma would rock him to sleep.
Grandma took a job cooking for a fraternity
house. She’d have to be there for breakfast and stay 'til after supper.
She’d bring home leftover food, so they always ate pretty well. But
Mama remembers having only one pair of socks in the eleventh and twelfth
grades and having to wash them out every night. She could wear Pearl’s
clothes so she had a fair wardrobe to use. She also had a dog, Boots,
who went everywhere with her. She had Boots for sixteen years.
Pearl became friends with a neighbor boy named
Loftin. Loftin was crazy for Pearl but Pearl was crazy for everyone
else. Pearl loved the high life and was looking for a rich husband.
One time Pearl had no dated for a Saturday so she said she’d go with Loftin
to a movie. Well, a date came up and Pearl cut out on Loftin.
Loftin waited in the hedge until Pearl came
home and hit her in the back of the head with a bat. Loftin got scared
and dropped the bat. Pearl pulled her hand away from her head and
saw blood, grabbed the bat and chased Loftin through the hedge back into
his house.
Loftin came over the next day to apologize
then enlisted in the Army. Pearl got a couple of post cards and a
picture of Loftin standing in some waters somewhere but, as far as I know,
never saw Loftin again. She married a rich miner, Proctor Milliken,
and moved to Idaho Springs. They had a large house and a maid.
It was 1937 and Lois, the second daughter,
had come back to live with Grandma for the second time because her husband
had committed suicide. Lois was a dance teacher and Mama was baby
sitting her baby nephew, Gerry, at Lois’ house. At about two in the
afternoon, Ray, the husband, came home. He had a funny look on his
face and Mama thought he was sick to his stomach. He went in to the
bathroom and she heard him mixing something in a glass. A few seconds
later she heard him kicking the door. She called to him and tried
to open the door but couldn’t get it open. She heard gasping and
choking sounds and ran to get the neighbor to help. She and the neighbor
managed to push the bathroom door open and saw that Ray was lying on the
floor. His feet were wedged against the door. They got someone
to call the police. Ray had mixed up cyanide in a glass of water
and drunk it. It ate out his throat as it made its way to his stomach.
One Saturday night, Mama was all done
up to go out on a date and Grandma and Lois were arguing that Lois should
stay home and take care of Gerry because Grandma had worked all day and
Mama was going out. Mama had long, thick, black hair and had sat
out in the sun for two hours to get it dry and it was beautiful.
Her crowning glory. Well, Grandma was doing dishes and threw a wet
dishrag at Lois, Lois ducked, and the wet rag hit Mama right on the head.
Her hair was ruined. She stayed home with Gerry that night.
One day, Lois was trying to get Gerry ready
to go somewhere and he kept wiggling. She said "Gerry, I think you’ve
got St. Vitis Dance."
He looked at her with his heavily lashed green
eyes and asked, "Where’s me got it, in me pocket?"
Lois married Charles Forney on August 14th,
1941. She had Jeanette Ann in August of the next year in Denver.
Mama met my Dad and her best friend, Ruby,
started going with his brother, Randall. One day, Randall picked
Ruby and Mama up from school. Daddy and another friend climbed into
the
One time, when Mama and Daddy were having
a malt at the drug store, Daddy asked if Mama could sing good. She
said, "Well, yes, why?"
He answered, "You ought to, you have legs
like a canary."
Mama and Daddy moved to Idaho Springs near
Pearl and Proc. Proc gave Daddy a job in his mill. Mama and
Daddy lived in an upstairs apartment two blocks off Highway 6 and 40.
This is where I was born on May 12, 1942.
By Kathy Kautzman, ©1999,
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